Friday Distraction: Valentine’s Day [infographic]

by Sharlyn Lauby on February 10, 2012

Check out this infographic by PEW Research on Valentine’s Day. Spending $3.4 billion on dining out and $3.5 billion on jewelry is certainly something I can get behind. But look at what the average person spends on their coworkers – especially compared to what they spend on their pets!

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I wonder if and how these trends might impact the workplace…

Image courtesy of Coupon Cabin

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I just finished reading an article on the Harvard Business Review site about honesty.  You can check it out here.  It immediately came to mind when I saw this note from a reader (it’s a long story but well worth the read):

Years ago, I worked as a department manager. I came into the company unaware of the high tensions and staff issues related to one employee in particular, who fell under my supervision. This employee had been there for many years by the time I came aboard.

After I was hired, someone in administration approached me concerning the previous and on-going work, business, honest, honesty, employee, employee relations, leadershipchallenges with this employee; concerns about workplace performance, time reporting and a whole gamut of issues. Administration wanted to get rid of the employee, but no one had stepped up to enter the fray. I decided to begin documenting the employee’s performance and together with administration hoped to take the issue to the company attorney for action.

The department director at the time was coasting toward retirement and wanted to avoid any and all conflict by ignoring issues. The department was a nightmare of staff doing basically whatever they wanted, knowing nothing was going to happen.

It took a lot out of me, but after 12 months, movement had finally begun within the company to terminate this employee. Fed up and highly frustrated after 18 months, I had begun searching for another position outside the company but ultimately accepted a lateral move to another location within the company.

I have remained friends with some of the employees in my former department.  I came to learn a staff member, who is now director of my former department, took issue with my leaving, in essence telling others that I gave up. She’s never broached the subject with me, nor has she ever offered support or criticism.

Now the company has an open position in my old department that I’m interested in, but applications are routed through the director.

My question is should I contact her prior to my application to discuss the past? Is it something I should consider? I would appreciate any advice/suggestions. Thank you.

I could identify with several aspects of this story.  The new manager who’s unaware of problems within their department.  The problem employee no one wants to hold accountable for performance.  The director who has abdicated their leadership role.

If only people along the way had been honest with each other (like the HBR story):

What if the new manager had been told of the challenges facing the department before he was hired, so he could prepare for the tension and challenges?  And knew who to contact for answers.

What if the problem employee had been coached about their performance along the way, so they had opportunities to improve?  Maybe it wouldn’t have escalated to this point.

My advice to this reader is pick up the phone, call your former colleague and talk about it.  Even if you never get considered for the open position, let the person know that having a good working relationship is important to you.

What advice would you give to this reader?  Please share your thoughts in the comments.

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CASE STUDY: Rite Aid Creates the Right Candidate Experience

February 7, 2012

(Today’s post is sponsored by iCIMS, a leading provider of Software-as-a-Service (SaaS) business solutions.  This case study highlights iCIMS unique “back to the basics” corporate philosophy that creates client value by turning less-necessary system functionality into configurable options and flexible platforms.  Enjoy!) We often talk in human resources about the candidate experience.  That is, making [...]

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The Best Color To Wear For a Job Interview

February 5, 2012

One of the best things about LinkedIn are the groups. You can become a part of groups based upon your profession, industry affiliations or interests. I belong to several and it’s fascinating to see the conversations people are engaged in.  For example, there was a huge conversation on one of my groups about the best [...]

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Friday Distraction: Super Bowl XLVI

February 3, 2012

On Sunday all eyes will be glued to their TVs watching the Super Bowl showdown between the New England Patriots and New York Giants. It’s sure to be a great game.  Did you know that Super Bowl Sunday is also considered the second largest day of food consumption in the United States?  Yep, and not [...]

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Recommended: Never Say Never

February 2, 2012

This year marks the 10 year anniversary of my start in consulting.  I’ve been reminiscing lately about when I started.  I remember getting one of two reactions when I first told people I was becoming a consultant: First was the “look” that silently said “oh, you mean you’re going to consult until a great job [...]

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The Customer Experience: A Tale of Three Steakhouses

January 31, 2012

Over the past few months, Mr. Bartender and I have visited three steakhouses.  One for my birthday, one for his and another because neither of us wanted to cook.  I wanted to share my experiences with you because, in looking back, I was reminded of a few lessons along the way. The first was a [...]

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